Baby Talk
Before we got married, Nikky and I talked about our plans in having a baby...when, how many, age gaps, etc. Actually, if i have to choose, I want it now. Kase concern ako masyado na 3 years from now nsa 30's na ko, and ayaw ko naman umabot sa point na ganon and besides hindi lang naman isa ang gusto namen anak, and ayaw rin naman nmen na sundan kagad. Di rin ako sure kung madali akong magconceive at kung parusa ba sken and sa asawa ko ung pregnancy ko. But there are factors that we are considering, like we want to spend time together na kame lang dalawa since matagal din naman kme nagkahiwalay and still adjusting as husband and wife. Aside from that yung financial, especially now na wala pa kong work and still adjusting my life here, so this is a difficult stage for me.
Last night, I was watching TV and suddenly my husband hugged me and said "i know gusto mo ng magkababy, ako rin naman eh... kaya lang ayaw ko naman na gawin nten yun kase naiinggit tyo, gusto ko gawin nten yun pagready na tyo kase ayaw ko mahirapan ung baby nten". aaaawwww isn't that sweet??? I thought at first ako lang ang excited to have a baby, kase normally i always got a negative reaction from him every time na i brought up the topic. I asked him, what if Im pregnant... sagot saken.. e di pregnant.. wats your reaction? wala lang... pero sabi nya, pag nanganak na daw ako talagang iiyak sya... marerelief lang daw sya pag nalaman nya na ok kme ng baby ko...
But I'm not frustrated at all, coz I know in God's time, he will give it to us.
Last night, I was watching TV and suddenly my husband hugged me and said "i know gusto mo ng magkababy, ako rin naman eh... kaya lang ayaw ko naman na gawin nten yun kase naiinggit tyo, gusto ko gawin nten yun pagready na tyo kase ayaw ko mahirapan ung baby nten". aaaawwww isn't that sweet??? I thought at first ako lang ang excited to have a baby, kase normally i always got a negative reaction from him every time na i brought up the topic. I asked him, what if Im pregnant... sagot saken.. e di pregnant.. wats your reaction? wala lang... pero sabi nya, pag nanganak na daw ako talagang iiyak sya... marerelief lang daw sya pag nalaman nya na ok kme ng baby ko...
But I'm not frustrated at all, coz I know in God's time, he will give it to us.
2 Comments:
At 2:23 AM, 
hi wella, natamaan ako sa post mo (in a touching way) kasi sa amin baligtad naman ako hesitant pa magkababy kasi ang dami dami dami ko pang gustong gawin na pag may kid na mahirapan nako or imposible nang gawin. i hope humaba pasensya ni mark hehe :) don't worry youre rest assured naman na nicky wants the same thing in due time.
hello musta na? ala mo tana naman ang hubby mo talagang dapat na ready na kayu na magkababy kasi mahirap din konti pag merong bata hindi na kayo makakpunta sa mga places na hindi kids friendly. like sa sinehan o diba ang hirap magdala ng bata asus kemahal panamn ng ticket ngayun. tsaka enjoy each other muna and besides darating din ang panahon na god will bless you a beautiful baby:) so enjoy each other muna:) enjoy the rest of you week :)