Adjustment Tips for a Good Marriage
Research has shown that partners of successful marriages make some definite changes in their outlook. It helps them to maintain a marriage, confront the changes and have a happy time together. Here are a few things you might adapt in your own married life to make a change for the better.At the very outset be aware that you are starting a new life separate from the family you have had so far. You don’t have to distance yourself from your family, but the new family you are starting is definitely not an extension of your parental family. Expect the life values and experiences to be different.
Have room for intimacy and identity as well as each other’s space and identity.
Put in the work for a pleasurable and loving sexual relationship. Do not allow intrusions from workplace and your extended family.
Know that the arrival of children is going to make a difference in your marriage. Be prepared for this, so that you are giving the best to your children as well as your togetherness as a couple.
Life is not always a pleasure ride. Confront the crises and have trust in each other. It is a blessing to be able to count on each other.
Keep the channels of communication open. Partners should be able to express their feelings including anger and different views in a safe environment.
Have humor and laughter in your life.
Encourage and support your partner. You should be nurturing and caring for each other.
Try to keep the romance of the early years alive, but be prepared for the sober realities as well.
Remember that good marriages are not born, but they are created from the effort the partners put in. It involves learning from each other and changing one’s attitude.
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